Mother-of-the-groom dress disagreement pulls family apart in ‘big error’ before a momentous occasion.

A mother posted a problematic family scenario on social media and asked for feedback after a future daughter-in-law, the bride-to-be, attempted to control the choice of dress for the impending wedding, with unsuccessful consequences.

Asked the older woman recently on the Reddit board known as “Am I the A–hole,” “AITA for apparently making the wedding all about me by being difficult and not taking time off work to go dress shopping?”

She informed others that her mother-in-law travels for work every Monday through Friday.


Family weddings will only be paid for if the children agree to two conditions, including wheelchair accessibility.

“I have been getting on a plane every Monday and getting back on Friday due to a project needing to be supervised,” she stated in the note.